Tough Job of Stars, Stripes & Tricolor Flags from USA to Australia

By David McNamara
By David McNamara

As news of the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Church massacre rippled across the USA I was 38,000 feet above the Indian Ocean. Unaware of the tragedy, I had just departed Charleston where I have spent a majority of the last three years to return to my hometown of Perth, Australia.

Almost 24 hours later when I arrived in Perth and logged onto Facebook I did notice the CCT images of a dorky kid and black sedan circulating amongst friends back in South Carolina and neighboring areas. But my eyes had already gone to sleep and I was merely skimming through my profile out of habit before collapsing into bed. Without registering any detail I assumed it was some local story of theft or assault.

Confronted by the devastating news which continued to unfold after I woke the next morning left me emotionally bereft, as if my feelings were jet lagged much like the rest of me. Over the weekend I wondered if my numbness was a symptom of distance ? which seemed odd when real distance is almost a bygone concept now, relegated by the digital age as a theory out of date and old-fashioned. Maybe it wasn’t distance so much as it was a sense of dislocation.

I wasn’t able to share my sympathy and commiseration, to join the conciliatory show of solidarity with events such as the Bridge to Peace, where thousands of people joined hands across the Ravenel Bridge. After all, grief and loss is as delicate as it is strong, mercurial as it is inexorable, selfish as it is selfless – and while capable of vicious retribution, its fearless propensity to unite and restore is unfathomable.

Like the many tourists and imports who relocate to Charleston, I was immediately intoxicated by the supernal Lowcountry surrounds, the historic setting and bonhomie spirit when I first visited. And charmed by the eccentric and idiosyncratic lure of the South I fell in love in Charleston and with the city. With time the tourist veneer faded, revealing a more intimate view of the city that can’t be shown on a guided tour. Yet the contradictions, conservatism, defiant spirit and divides of ancestry and privilege intrigued me, and I grew more enamored with the city where I have made many lifelong friends.

In the aftermath of the Mother Emanuel terrorist attack the sincere outpouring of condolences, corralled by mainstream media conflagrated debates. Aggressively seeking appeasement and ‘a need to understand’ all attention quickly turned to a flag – a flag at the South Carolina State House that literally (both physically and legislatively) couldn’t be lowered in wake of the tragedy when both the US and SC State flags were at half-staff in mourning for the nine victims of the church shooting.

A week later and the campaign to remove the Confederate battle flag from the State House in South Carolina’s capital of Columbia had gained immense traction. With support from the president, politicians including South Carolina Governor Nikki Haley, Charleston Mayor Joseph Riley Jr. and former Republican presidential nominee Mitt Romney have called for the removal of the Confederate flag, because many people see it as a symbol of racial hatred. This has been supported by retailing giants such as Amazon, Target and eBay which followed Wall-Mart’s example and declared they too would stop selling Confederate-branded merchandise. More recently Apple announced it would recall all Civil War games from the App Store that displayed the Confederate flag.

Meanwhile, at the Battery in downtown Charleston the ‘Confederate Defenders’ statue in White Point Garden was defaced with a hashtag and slogan which read “Black lives matter”. Subsequently, the John C. Calhoun statue in Marion Square was graffitied with the label “racist”. President Barrack Obama then went on radio and said “nigger” and even though he wasn’t calling anyone a nigger a lot of people were offended. The momentum has since spilt across state lines with Confederate memorials across the South attracting attention and being drawn into the tide of people calling for these additional reminders of white supremacy to be taken down. As nuance and pedantry engulfed social media, white people admonishing vandalism are being called racists by other white people who applaud the graffiti as acts of rightful civil disobedience. A New America study was also released in the same week which showed more Americans died from right-wing extremism violence than deadly Jihadist attacks since 9/11. And now people are calling for Gone with the Wind to be banned.

Tearing stuff down, removing shit and busting up crap is a natural part of any cathartic process of vetting guilt, grief and contrition. That’s what shoe boxes and front verges on collection day are for at the end of a tumultuous breakup. As societies we banish symbols and demolish places under which heinous acts and atrocities are committed. But we also enshrine symbols and places that foster enormous sorrow so we don’t forget – to commemorate our collective loss, a beacon to embody forgiveness, renewal and togetherness.

To know what to do shouldn’t be that hard – when it’s a matter of communal respect right? After all any kind of social changes requires a degree of letting go – relinquishing certain traditions, rituals and symbols that were once part of our collective identity in order to heal past injustices and move forward sensibly, progressively and compassionately for the welfare and well-being of everyone.

It can hard sometimes, traversing above the feeding frenzied media to make an informed a decision of what to keep and what to let go of – especially when the real voices of those affected the most are often drowned out by people of clout lost in their own myth, caught up on camera posting their own opinions like they’re selfies of memes and martyrdom. And as a result, the very thing everyone’s trying to get rid of saturates broadsheets and touch screens. But who knows, the more practice everyone gets at letting go they might kind of like it and want to let go of other things – like branding sporting teams with derogatory and offensive American Indian names and logos, along with the tight grip around loose gun laws in the USA which enable such instances of mass shootings and gun-related violence.

As a young nation struggling for an identity Australia found an enduring legacy with its own military. Known as Anzacs, they were a coalition of Australian and New Zealand armed forces who bravely fought in the First World War. To many Australians the red, white and blue cross of the Union Jack positioned above the Southern Cross on the blue-banned background of the national flag represents an inextricable history we share with the United Kingdom and as a member of the Commonwealth.

However, when republicanism gained prominence in the 1990s leading up to a referendum in 1999 our country’s flag and national anthem were again drawn into the debate. Generational arguments were bandied between loyalists leaning on tradition versus republicans claiming the flag was anachronistic and no longer held significance in our modern multicultural. This brought into focus the grievances felt by many Indigenous Australians who see the Australian flag with the canton of the Union Jack as a symbol of colonial oppression and dispossession by an invading, imperialistic force. In a completely different set of circumstances the same debate has arisen in Mississippi with calls to remove the Confederate symbol from their state flag.

Australia, along with New Zealand are amongst only a few countries in the world where changing the national flags is strongly supported. A common suggestion is to replace the Union Jack with the Aboriginal flag. In my view the Aboriginal flag is one of the most aesthetical perfect flags – for the exquisite simplicity and elegance it uses three colors to convey a people connected to a land. While incorporating some indigenous symbolism on a new flag design could represent a reconciliatory and unifying step, appropriating the Aboriginal flag in this manner could also have the opposite effect. This is because the canton of a flag can signify subjugation and division, which is why the flag’s designer Harold Thomas was also hesitant at such a suggestion. In an article published in the Sydney Morning Herald in 1994 Thomas explained,

“It stands on its own, not to be placed as an adjunct to any other thing. It shouldn′t be treated that way.”

Personally, the republican referendum in 1999 felt symbolic. It seemed a lot of Australians felt the same and with a majority of people happy to keep the status quo nothing changed. We retained the monarchy and our flag and anthem stayed the same.

The problem with symbols is they hold both personal and shared significance. And basically a flag’s job is to be a symbol. But it’s a hell of a job – to embody an entire nation and its people, representing the equality and diversity of their achievements and aspirations from the past through to the present and into the future. This is why flags wield immense power to unite, as well as offend, oppress, alienate and ensnare. It’s the reason I’ve never liked the idea of waving a flag (unless it’s a rainbow colored flag with the words ‘peace’ or ‘love’ or has an image of a unicorn) because of its divisive propensity towards segregation and nationalism.

From the time I’ve spent in Charleston I consider it a home or sorts, which is a rare and fragile gift to the wending scholars of the open road such as myself. But the Confederate flag is not my legacy. The only connection I have with it is a ballistic slow motion aerial of General Lee while watching Dukes of Hazard on television as a kid.

I’m sure Charleston will continue to do the right thing and act as a bright example ? just like the last time international attention turned to the city with the killing of an unarmed black man by a white police officer. While the continuing spate of unarmed suspects being shot and killed by police is treated with an appalling lack of accountability elsewhere in the country, in Charleston the police officer was summarily fired and charged with murder.

During the process of mourning and healing I guess it’s good to remind ourselves we are all creatures of the sun. History is not universal. It has no beginning or end – the only thing it has in common wherever you are is it bleeds (Stiles). And while it’s necessary to let some things go, it’s also good to create something new – an emblem to bind us in reconciliation and peace as we move forward together.

Charleston Dream

I dreamed I was I was flying
High above the steeples with the clouds tickling my feet
Through the suspension pillars to the sailboats below
Dolphins playing in the harbor

With the wind through my hair, I glided around the Battery saluting the dedicated soldiers that made the ultimate sacrifice for freedom.
Their spirit lives on in the walls of Sumter

Nine angels joined me in formation
Smiling; smiling so wide that a rainbow appeared over the horizon

As the bells chime from north to south, east to west thousands of strangers hugged
Blind of color; rich of heart

Neighbors and brothers
Mothers and daughters
Friends and lovers

A city lost some of its children today, but strengthened its foundation

I dreamed I was flying
High above the graffiti written on the walls of the shelters of doubt

In the darkness, they hide behind a blanket of ignorance

Under the presence of our father, the children of the holy city rise above the ashes, cleansing the graffiti with the white blanket of love

With the guidance of my new angels, we look below and protect our home with a pillar of hope

I dreamed I was flying
I woke and with the glimmer of the rising sun, I smiled looking forward to a new day; a new beginning

 

 

Best Friends in Charleston – A Celebration of Love

We celebrate the love of friendship each and every day in Charleston.? Our community thrives on generosity, Southern hospitality and genuine goodness.? The goodness of our people compliments the beauty of our home with such purity that I find it difficult to ever take Charleston for granted.? It welcomes each day with open arms and lets you be a part of something truly magical.? From the marsh to the bridge, beach to the church steeples, Charleston is a mecca of warmth.

We wanted to celebrate the bond of friendship in a special way, but due to the events that occurred on Wednesday, the timing did not seem appropriate.? Yet until we took a moment to step back and absorb the pain, it occurred to us that the moment seemed most appropriate.

Best friends embody love.? An unconditional love you can only feel when you share something so special that only you know the beauty of each other inside and out.? We wanted to share with you a pictorial expression of the love of best friends from the vantage point of our own folks.

Thank you for all the amazing submissions.? As you see the smiles and the hugs, you will see that the depth of love shared in our community cannot be measured.

Kameron and Rachel
Kameron and Rachel

Best Friends support each other through good and bad.

Keith Bond and Kerrigan
Keith Bond and Kerrigan

Best Friends give unconditional love no matter what.

Jessica and Pennie

Best Friends are always silly around each other.

Photo By Doug Rogers - Provided by Joyce Bilton
Photo By Doug Rogers – Provided by Joyce Bilton

Best Friends love to laugh and share inside secrets.

Provided by Dorothy Mueller
Provided by Dorothy Mueller

Best Friends explore the world together one adventure at a time.

Provided by Dorothy Mueller
Provided by Dorothy Mueller

Best Friends can conquer anything.

Loretta and Mark
Loretta and Mark

Best Friends let you always, always be the princess or the prince.

Provided by Megan Hurley
Provided by Megan Hurley

Best Friends have no problem licking your face first thing in the morning and you love them even more for it.

Provided by Madison Hodge
Provided by Madison Hodge

Best Friends have no limit in numbers.? The more the merrier.

Twins
Twins

Best Friends come in all ages and even dress up alike sometimes.

Never say goodbye
Never say goodbye

Best Friends never say goodbye.? When one leaves Charleston, you all get up at 5:00 AM to walk one last time and reflect on the wonderful memories.? But you never say goodbye.

My Charleston – An Opinion Piece (In the Wake of the Emanuel 9 Tragedy)

By Loretta Jophlin, Staff Writer - Charleston Daily
By Loretta Jophlin, Staff Writer – Charleston Daily

My continued hope for Charleston is that our darkest days are behind us. I still hear the church bells ringing, filling the emptiness that was Charleston on the night of September 11, 2001. On that day, I could not fathom why we as humans, who have the capability to love, turned against each other. My solace was knowing that My Charleston, was somehow better than that.? This Holy City, where the citizens epitomize grace and hospitality, could not turn against itself.

I was proven wrong, a few months later, on January 20, 2002, as I cowered in my apartment on Elizabeth Street, hoping the violence outside would stay just there, in the courtyard of Second Presbyterian Church.? Marko Dupree Drayton was captured after his downtown shooting spree left a Charleston Police officer and an MUSC liver transplant coordinator dead. It was hard to step outside again. It was hard to trust that the person passing on the sidewalk didn’t wish me harm. But Charleston healed with time. Unfortunately, Drayton’s rampage has repeated itself with increasing frequency, and it somehow feels like the norm

A most disturbing aspect of what has happened is the obvious symbolism. Having attended a funeral and a wedding at the AME church, I know very well how warm and welcoming the congregation is. While I sometimes feel like an outsider at my own church, AME knows no outsiders. I think about the wolf in sheep’s clothing, offered acceptance, love and fellowship, for the moments before he stole so many lives… The only thing I can do at this point is to reflect on Matthew 5:44. Love your enemies – pray for them.

This tragedy, on the eve of the anniversary of the Fallen Charleston Nine, has left our community wounded. This morning, I passed my neighbor on the street and cast my eyes down. Fear has returned. The trust is broken. My Charleston has once again fallen from grace but it shouldn’t. I challenge us all to look the next person you pass on the street in the eyes, and nod in kindness and understanding, knowing we have each other’s backs. My Charleston, your Charleston, will again heal.

The Battery – Charleston, SC: The Great Escape

The Battery is a scenic walk along the Charleston Harbor ordained with history plantation homes, lines of palmetto trees, colorful flowers and at the right moment a cool soft breeze to alleviate the pressures of the summer heat.

We all have our personal experiences and and routines at The Battery.? For some, who take for granted or have not spent time recently at the Battery, you are missing one of the most serene places in all of Charleston.? We spent some time at the South Battery over the weekend and thought we would remind you of some of the great things you can do.

  • Picnic where the first shots of the Civil War were fired
  • Bike with someone you love along the Harbor
  • Go for a morning or evening jog as the sun rises and sets over the Charleston Harbor
  • Go for a local personal walking tour of the beautiful historic Plantation homes along The Battery
  • Offer directions to passing tourists that lost their way from the French Quarter
  • Get the motivation to finally learn how to sail after watching the boats pass by
  • Finally, keep your eyes open for frolicking dolphins

If these images make you sigh, picture yourself caught up in the beauty and serenity of it all.

The fresh flowers in the medium add the perfect amount of color and fragrance.

The view of the homes will make you yearn for a simpler time of yesteryear.

The Palmetto Trees offer a brief moment of escape from the sun and compliment the clouds very well.

Find your way back to The Battery soon.

Last moments of sunlight at White Point Garden

 

2 Meeting Street B&B
2 Meeting Street B&B

Monkeying Around at Wild Blue Ropes

One of the many reasons we celebrate Charleston is the unique and challenging activities that surround us.? We are becoming a mecca of health and wellness with Yoga in the Park, rock climbing walls, shagging, boot camps, Sky Zone, disc golf and now a rope challenge course that defies gravity offering children, adults, and families and teams the opportunity to motivate, break down the barriers of fear and use the principles of balance, athletics, courage and fun in a memorable way.

Wild Blue Ropes from a distance, as you drive down Folly Road, continues to turn heads daily.? Its complex structure and stimulating visual has created quite a buzz.

We decided to take the challenge head on.? Not notoriously strong on the balance side,? I was? a little concerned, but after only about 20 minutes, I began to rely less on the rope supports and more on my balance skills.? Careful:? the first time you look down, it is a doozer of a view.

Enjoy our personal playtime experience at Wild Blue Ropes

Looks a bit intimidating.

Early on, we were holding on for dear life.? No fear! No fear!? All fun.

Starting to feel much more comfortable.

This challenge looks a little tricky.? One step at a time.

Just hanging around.? Nothing to it.

Look, walking in the path of Big Foot.? Watch the footsteps…

We had a long fulfilling afternoon at Wild Blue Ropes.? Let’s just chill and relax for a while high off the ground.

Overall, this is a remarkable experience.? Wild Blue Ropes has catered to everyone from under 10 to 74 years old and like us, they left energized, fulfilled and wanting more.

This is high on our list of unique fun Charleston activities to put on your personal bucket list.

Wild Blue Ropes – Folly Road, James Island